We all have
friends. A lot gets talked about friendships. Everyone wants a true
friend, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be called a
true friend. What kind of relations do friends share? When can we call
a friend a true friend, and when can our friends take us as their true
friend. After a romantic relationship, friendships are the most
important relationships we can have. Though all of us have family and
distant family, most of us rely on friends for advice, comfort and
inspiration. How do we define a relation that can be called as one of
true friendship?
The very first sign of a very good friend, not
necessarily a true friend is that we are not worried about courtesies.
You will call your friend at any hour and talk without any thought of
time in your mind. Similarly, whenever you need support, you will call a
very good friend and ask him/her to help you out. They expect the same
from you. Another important trait of such relations is that we are not
much worried about exposing ourselves. We speak about everything in
our mind without worrying about what our friends will think. We are
sure that they will take our talk in the spirit it was made. We are
unguarded and open with friends in our talk.
A true friend is a
little more than a very good friend. A true friend will support you
even if it hurts his/her own interest. A true friend will understand
your motives and needs and will be with you without any analysis or
criticism. A true friend will come forward to help without any request
and be with us in need without showing it or expecting anything in
return. With a true friend, you can be sure that you will get help to
the extent possible by him/her. Nothing will remain unturned. A mother
is a true friend of her children. If we share such relations with an
adult we can say that we are true friends.
A true friend makes no
excuses of having work or appointments or anything but will be with
you whenever you need him/her. In your hour of desperation, a true
friend will support you even if the whole world opposes you. A true
friend is not an opportunist. A true friend means to have someone who
is like mother, as I said earlier. Instead of having hundreds of good
friends, if you have a true friend, treat yourself lucky. If you can
also become a true friend of someone, you will be blessed, because it
is much easier for all of us to expect but very difficult to give. Be a
true friend yourself first.
*love your friends as the way they love you because to get a friend is very easy but to maintain the friendship it's very
tough and that's why I always believe that to find a true friend I have to meet a few wrong ones before I can
appreciate the right one =)
i wonder how my friends doing right now.....
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